There's a lot that has been said in this thread. We've reached a conclusion from both parties.
Thank you all for saying what you had in mind.

Here are the results from the survey I did on /r/unixporn https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1...sp=sharing.
This shows that around 70% of unixporn don't want and won't contribute to forums and that 70% really don't care about irc or don't want any merge.
Putting aside most of the comments in this thread, it displays what's going to happen.

To recap everything:
Most of /r/unixporn don't want to deal with forums.
Most /r/unixporn is there just to brag about scrots.
/r/unixporn don't care about ircs so don't expect anything special from a merge.
Merging the ircs would complicate things.
Nixers.net is more than just ricing, it's a whole community experience.
If anyone wants to join then let them join instead of starting a side-forum just for that.
Nixers.net influence /r/unixporn and /r/unixporn influences Nixers.net.
Some people never learn, are tyranic, and are forceful.
When trust is lost, trust is lost.
Changing forums names, rebranding, etc.. all that means loosing friends along the way.
Listening to the mods demands without asking the community ought to turn into harsh and unreasonable decisions.
Less uptime means less credibility.
Don't follow people that starts a rush of destruction, it might sound cool but it's not.
Drama is lame.

The forums are going to stay the same and so is the IRC.

Feel free to start threads about new ideas you have in mind, start new community projects, discuss interesting subjects, dig old threads where we haven't had enough discussion about, ect..

For example:
Z3bra started this "Unix Diary" thread, why not contribute.
Help with the "ricer" project info, it still needs a little bit of work and it'll be done.
Where did that "Unix challenge" thread go?

I'll close this thread but you can always re-open a new one if you want to re-discuss the situation.

Love you all  ( ´ ▽ ` )ﾉ